How does one succeed in life?

Last Updated: 03.07.2025 05:13

How does one succeed in life?

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

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Making more friends is a goal.

Do not set goals—set systems.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

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Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Hangs out with loser friends.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

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The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

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Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

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Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Have you ever witnessed a remote beach show where hundreds of turtles crawling to the water?

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Ask yourself:

Who would win, an F-22 Raptor or Tie Defender?

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

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The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Is there a correlation between sweating during sleep and high body temperature and sugar levels?

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

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However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Does not procrastinate.

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What I need from you?

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

That's it for today.

Procrastinates a lot.

Living to your full potential is a goal.